When Nash got adopted in mid-April 2008, I was glad that he found a wonderful new home with a Chow female buddy. I was doubly glad to have Mom to myself, along with my two roommates - Ice an American Eskimo and Daisie Mae, a cross between a Retriever and Chow. Mom said, no more fosters for a while. She wanted to spend quality time with yours truly, and give me more time to bond with Ice and Daisie Mae. I was one happy boy. Trips to the doggie park where I could catch the ball without Nash beating me to the punch was sheer joy. That critter was quite an athlete when it came to chasing and nabbing that squeaky ball. Sometimes that made me mad because he usually beat me to the punch. But he’s gone - yea - Mom and the squeaky tennis ball is mine, all mine!
Imagine my surprise one Friday night in late May when Mom picks me up after work and takes me to the kennel. O.K. What’s up. She leaves me in the car, all windows open, and disappears in to the kennel only to appear two minutes later with a whippersnapper in tow called Hobo, or as she calls him, Tiger Boy. “Beams, this is Hobo and he’s going to live with us for a while until he finds a good home.” Do I have any say in this? Obviously not. Whippersnapper is muzzled and jumps into the back of my CRV. Yes, he jumped, I’ll give him that. Not many male dogs have a clue how to jump into a car. Of course, I’m an exception. Did this the first time Mom rescued me from the kennel and took me into foster care. So we sniff and circle and he growls, what a nerve. I completely ignored him and stuck my head out the window on the ride home.
Once home, Tiger Boy enters the house and Mom guides him to the doggie door and pushes him through with instructions to inspect the yard and realize this is where he does his business, not in the house. I guess he’s gone for about five minutes and then I hear the doggie door flap slam, and he’s in the house sniffing everything in sight, including me, Ice and Daisie Mae. But he got the message. This boy is a clean dude. He has not annointed anything vertical in the home and neither has he chewed ’her’ stuff.
Time for bed. Can you believe this. The whippersnapper has the audacity to commandeer my bed next to Mom’s and growls and barks when I try to tell him, hey kid, this is my bed. Thankfully, Mom intervened and told him to back off, showing him there were six other doggie beds in the house and he could choose his special spot from one of these. She tells me, Hobo has issues with regard to personal space. No kidding, I fathomed that out for myself.
For the next week or so, I have to put up with Hobo’s personal space issues. It was time for a chat:
Me: So what’s the deal? Why do you bark and growl at me when I’m just passing you on your doggie bed on my way to my bed?
Hobo: You’re bigger than me, but I can take you on any time big boy.
Me: Take me on, are you kidding? I outweight you by 20 lbs. Anyway, I’m not interested in fighting you, I just need to get to my doggie bed by my Mom’s bed, it’s mine, I was here first.
Hobo: You don’t like me being here - I could tell that first night riding home in the car - you were miffed that Mom had taken in another foster. I’m the last in line of four dogs and I have to protect my space.
Me: What’s with this space thing? You never growl and bark when we go on walks, or go to the doggie park, or greet Mom when all four of us surround her when she comes home from work. I don’t get it.
Hobo: I didn’t go from the race track to the AGR kennel like you did. I was alone and running in a field in Kansas, worried about where I was going to find food. I think I was dumped, but I can’t be sure. I just know that I was feeling very insecure and lonely and had to be tough in case I was attacked by some other creature. Then this guy stopped his truck, put a leash on me and hauled me off to Tucson where I was put in a cage.
Me: Well, I was put in a cage too, but I was fed good chow, exercised twice a day, and my cage was clean. It was only temporary because Mom adopted me.
Hobo: After running free, being in a cage was a problem for me. I was there for five months. Nobody wanted me.
Me: That’s because you growl and bark at other dogs. You did this at PetSmart - yes, you did, don’t deny it. I found out about this one night when I peeked over Mom’s shoulder when she was emailing Barb about you.
Hobo: I didn’t like PetSmart. All those other dogs that come into the store kept getting in my face. I don’t like that.
Me: They just wanted to say Hi. They didn’t mean you any harm.
Hobo: They didn’t?
Me: No, they’re what humans called ’socialized’ meaning that they like to schmooze and chat with other dogs. You, my friend, needed to be socialized. Why do you think you’re here? There are four of us and, frankly, three of us have had it with your growls and barking.
Hobo: I haven’t growled or barked much lately. Sometimes I just feel intimidated. Being the last in the pecking order is not a desirable place to be.
Me: So, does Mom treat you any differently than she treats me and the other two?
Hobo: No, she treats me just fine. Lots of affection, just like she treats you guys. And those marrow bones - wow - are they something else. I’m feeling much more secure, but sometimes I just get anxious.
Me: You are improving, I’ll give you that. Just remember, you don’t have to fight for food or affection. It’s freely given in this home. Me, Ice and Daisie Mae are lovers, not fighters. We understand that Mom fosters because she wants to train the foster kid how to behave in a home. It sure helps to get greyhounds adopted into a loving permanent home. But if you don’t knock off the growls and barks, you will be hard to place. Mom took you in because, as she said, she found you ‘endearing’ whatever that means. But you’re out of the kennel and in a home and, for the most part, you’ve done extremely well. You’re clean, you don’t chew her ’stuff’ even though you’re not yet two years old.
Hobo: So do you think someone will come along that will love me like Mom, take me for walks, buy me squeaky toys and marrow bones?
Me: Absolutely. Now can we be friends?
Hobo: I’ve never had a friend before, but I think that you, Ice and Daisie Mae are a practice run for me to get used to being around other dogs that give me my space. So I’ll try harder not to growl or bark if I feel my space is threatened. Deal?
Me: Deal.
You know, I never took any courses in doggie counseling, but I think I’m getting through to Tiger Boy. What do you think?
Beamer.